10 ways to make love to your woman

posted by Senior Thinking

This is to all my male friends,who sometimes take their women forgranted. I hope you can pickup a thing or two. As Michael said, its not me, me, me but should be we,we,we.

These aren’t sex techniques; they are ways you show your love. There is no order to them nor is one more important than the other.

1. A body rub with oil, she picks the oil. It can be scented. A good rub takes about an hour. It should include the toes and feet, the hands, the neck, and all the joints. Slow and topical to start, slower and deeper as you go on, rub each area until the oil disappears and move along. Use enough oil.



2. Run your fingers through her hair. Slowly comb it and gently add pressure to the skin and scalp. The hair on the head runs a certain way, so it will take time to find the way the hair and scalp want it. Do it with your eyes closed is the best way, so you can feel it. Use your fingertips as they are very sensitive.



3. An irregular routine of gifts. I use flowers mostly. Every so often, 2 or three times a month. I never bring flowers on a birthday, Mothers Day or Valentines Day. Usually not but then every so often I will. Don’t do it every Wednesday or when you leave town. Just do it every so often.



4. Be there for her when she is ill. Today, it was just such a day. It may mean pain pills, or having the damn bucket ready if she is that kind of ill and washing it out. And don’t say anything about it, just do it. She feels bad enough, save any guilt or noise for sunny days.



5. Let her have the remote every so often. And watch what she wants to watch. Life isn’t about me, me, me. It is about we, we, we. The most important we you have is with her, let her surf too, no matter how badly she does it in your humble opinion.



6. Go to see her movies every so often. Some of them really are good. Discuss which ones she would like, offer an opinion, don’t just roll over, add some discourse, then go and eat your popcorn. Bring a tissue if it is a tear jerker and notice if it gets to her.



7. Spend some time each day really listening to her. Just listening, not adding in, not “solving the issue”, just listen. Look her in the eyes for periods of time (I know this may be tough but practice). This one is hard and I am working on it.



8. Hold her hand in public every so often, even if it is for brief moments. Even if you have three kids and been married for ages, she is still your girlfriend. You don’t have to do it for a mile, even 30-40 feet is fun.



9. Let her drive the car every so often. She can lead pretty well. She probably can get around just fine on her own, so be a passenger. You can still give directional advice, it is what we are good at but let go of the control.



10. Kiss her unexpectedly, like when you are headed into the laundry room to get something or when she is stirring something on the counter. Nothing fancy, just a nice peck. Now you in all likelihood won’t get these back in the quantity you give them. Tell her you love her and the use of some pet name is appreciated. Once a day is nice but be random and use judgment. 10 times a day is annoying, twice a day is a surprise.